For many aspiring writers, self-doubt can be a formidable adversary, casting shadows of uncertainty over their creative endeavors. They pour their hearts onto pages, yet hesitate to embrace the title of “writer,” waiting for some external validation to grant them permission. I found myself trapped in this cycle as well.
I questioned my abilities, labeling myself as an “aspiring” writer, silently yearning for the day when I could confidently claim the title I knew I already possessed.
But amidst the uncertainty, I stumbled upon a profound truth that changed everything. The key to becoming a writer lies not in external accolades or validation, but in the simple act of declaring oneself as such.
This revelation came to me during an interview with Steven Pressfield, a seasoned professional in the world of writing. When I asked him, “When do you become a writer?” his response resonated deeply:
“You are a writer when you tell yourself you are. No one else’s opinion matters. Screw them. You are when you say you are.”
These words unlocked a newfound sense of empowerment within me. I realized that waiting for external validation was futile; true validation comes from within. It was time to shed the shackles of self-doubt and embrace my identity as a writer.
Since then, my perspective has shifted. I no longer wait for permission to claim my title; I simply write, confident in my identity as a writer.
And you, dear reader, are urged to do the same. Embrace the title of “writer” with conviction, casting aside labels like “aspiring” or “wannabe.” This act of self-affirmation is not just a declaration; it’s a discipline, a commitment to honoring your craft.
Whether you’re a writer, an artist, or pursuing any other calling, the principle remains the same: Believe in yourself, and others will follow suit.
It’s time to rewrite the narrative of self-doubt and hesitation. It’s time to embrace your true identity and boldly declare yourself as what you already are: a writer.